Its not whether or not you have a degree, its what you get out of it

Apple co-founder and all-around interesting guy Steve Jobs gave the Stanford commencement address this year, and in it he told stories from his life . The first was about how he dropped out of Reed College after six months. Steve told the graduates that he did not see the value of the education to his future, that the price of it was a strain on his working-class family. Specifically, he didn’t know what he wanted to do with his life, but he did know that he was not enjoying the classes he was required to take. Here is a transcript of his speech, if you’re interested.

Now, the Slashdot crowd was quick to seize on Steve’s message as a repudiation of the education system. Commenters began to divide into factions, those who believes degrees are stupid but you need to have them to advance in the business world, those who think degrees are valuable and you need knowledge to do well, and those who believe you can be just as good a person/employee/whatever without college, and dropping out is a perfectly acceptable course.

I agree with all of them, and none of them, because I think they are all dramatically oversimplifying.

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Making people happy: an object lesson with transportation

I spend a lot of time, possibly too much, trying to make sure that people I know, like, and care about are happy. Sometimes, this leads to inadvertent conflict and upset, which is the opposite of my intent and thus perplexing. The specific incident category I’m thinking of now has to do with rides to the airport, and I bring it up because a similar thing has happened now with me and a few different people, which would imply that I’m doing something wrong, and thus should change my behavior.

Sometimes people call me and ask for rides places. This is generally sort of awkward because if you don’t want to take the time and effort to give someone a ride, its hard to just say no, you have to come up with a plausible excuse. So when I ask people for rides, I give them lots of opportunities to opt-out. So if someone says, “hey, do you still need that ride from the airport tomorrow?” I will respond with something along the lines of, “I would love to have a ride if it isn’t inconvenient for you, but otherwise I can take a cab.”

My intention here is to balance the relative energy — since I’m at the airport anyway, I have to get home, and my only limitation is money, and a bit of effort and hassle. But for someone else to go out of their way to get me, I’m making them use a valuable commodity, namely 2x the time it takes me to get home (once to get there, once to get back) not to mention the use of their car, the requirement of navigating crappy Boston traffic, the cost of tolls, etc. So I see it as, I really appreciate your offer, and I accept it, but I don’t require it, and if you want to back out because this is going to eat up a lot of your time and make you miserable, please do so, because I want to keep you happy, and that is more important than me getting home easily.

And then they get upset and say, “do you want the ride or not?” and get offended and start raising their voice.

So what am I doing wrong here, and how can I say what I want to say without accidentally saying something else entirely? Because I just don’t understand what is being misinterpreted, and why I’m upsetting people. I feel like my way is more considerate than flat out accepting a ride that I’ve asked for (and thus put someone on the spot for), but clearly my way is not the ideal way.

4.5 miles yesterday

But I sort of cheated — I was getting tired so every I took 5 minute walking breaks for each 10-15 minutes of running.

I also got my OldNavy.com order in the mail today — all of their inexpensive workout clothing is…icky, so I guess I’m just gonna have to suck it up and go back to REI for more of the expensive stuff.

Framing quest

I uploaded some photos to Costco’s photo center and ordered 4×6 prints at 17 cents each. Picked ’em up at the local Costco and they looked pretty darn nice. Costco looks to be the best game in town for digital prints, much better quality than a home printer and costs less than any other printing place (possibly costs less than doing it at home, in fact).

Next I went to Target to get some inexpensive frames for the photos, but for some inexplicable reason while they have a couple dozen different frame types and hundreds of frames in stock, there were only three or four 4×6 frames, no more than one of any single type, all hiding behind other frames. Everything else was 5×7 or larger. Either someone came in and just grabbed every 4×6 in sight, or they aren’t refreshing their stock very quickly.

While I was disappointed on frames, I did at least find some solid colored shirts I like at the insane price point of $5.99 each. Target is really an amazing place, why didn’t I know this before now?

Channeling Forrest Gump

So after reading the feedback to my last post I decided to go out and buy some proper attire. The stuff is annoyingly expensive, but up until this point all I’ve purchased is a pair of shorts from Old Navy so this seemed like as good a time as any to start investing in my workouts.

I purchased some polyester clothing (err…DryLETE or Dri-release, depending on who is asking) at REI that is meant for workouts, and is supposedly good at keeping you dry and ventilated and such. Well, it worked.

One of the major changes over the past week or two that I didn’t think about is that it has gotten warmer. Hot, even. We sort of switched from winter to summer with no spring in between. And while the gym, located in an underground concrete bunker (don’t ask…) isn’t as hot as the outdoors, the air is warm and humid, and that was probably the biggest factor affecting my treadmill runs.

Remarkably, this stuff performed as advertisied, and kept me pretty cool and dry, or as much as can be expected from mesh fabric as opposed to, say, air conditioning. That combined with a desire to really push myself and not stop no matter how tired I was getting, and I was able to run the furthest I’ve ever run, namely 4.1 miles. Now my only fear is that when I go to run today, I won’t get that far.

So some new clothes, a renewed desire, and probably some placebo effect, and now I’m pretty excited about the future of my professional running career. Or at least my chances in a 5k. 🙂

Looking for a bit of living advice

My gym routine has been simplified down now such that my one constant is running on the treadmill most days, generally for between 30 and 40 minutes (including warm-up/cool-down) and then a bit of stretching and some weights or whatever strikes my fancy. For the last few days I’ve just not had the urge at all to run, and its been completely unenjoyable to me. I mean, its generally not the most exciting way to spend one’s time, but I can sort of zone out, think about things, listen to music, and the like. Lately it just hasn’t been working for me, so yesterday I took a day off from the gym and today I went back, and while I ran for a little while and worked up a sweat, I still didn’t feel very good afterwards.

The other difficult thing abou running as opposed to the elliptical machine or the reclining bike (neither of which give me near as good of a workout) is that I can’t really do it while watching TV or listening to audiobooks. The former isn’t terrible because I don’t much like watching network TV on their schedule with their commercials anyway (I wish the machines had DVD players!), but the latter is sort of sad, because I was having fun listening to audiobooks at the gym. I also can’t listen to any kind of music, it has to be something with the right kind of beat and to sort of match my mood and to be somewhat gripping, meaning either I haven’t heard it a hundred times or it is a showtune and I can sort of get engaged in the story. A tall order, my music tastes are, because my existing selections are getting stale.

Which brings me back to the problem I’m having, that I’m not energized to run, I’m not feeling good about running, and I’m just not doing as well running. Up until this point I think running has worked pretty well for me. Here are a few of the proposals I have come up with for change:
# *Try a different time of day.* — I might do better in the mornings. This would tie in with a desire I think I’m having to re-normalize my sleep schedule before it gets completely out of whack again. I’d love to start waking up earlier, and this is the right time to make it happen since I don’t have many other scheduled commitments to worry about. But when I’ve run in the mornings before I’ve had a problem with waking up enough to not, ya know, fall off. I’m not really a morning person.
# *Try running outdoors.* — Cambridge is a neat place, and while I find it a little weird to be running on sidewalks and stopping to cross intersections and the like, this would probably make the experience a lot more variable and perhaps bring back some of the excitement. Doing it with my big iPod to carry is another story…and I’m really not in the mood to go buy a Shuffle at the moment.
# *Switch my routine.* — Like I said, I think running works. It drains a lot of energy, and when I was doing it before it left me feeling fulfilled and energized afterwards. But maybe I can find something else I like just as much. Reclining bike isn’t terrible, and I can do it while listening to audiobooks or even, god forbid, watching TV.

This is where you come in. Let’s make this blog interactive. 🙂 Any comments on what I’ve said, or other suggestions? I know I have a few readers who do quite a bit of running in various capacities, perhaps they have some tips. (I’m looking at you, marathon girl. ;))

Cookies

I had a craving tonight for chocolate chip cookies (this desert habit is becoming unhealthy! ;)) so I went out in search of them. The convenience store up the block does not carry cookie dough (and the man was very confused about what the heck I was talking about) so my hopes were dashed. But as I crossed the street to head home I realized there is a second convenience store right across the street, so I checked there, and sure enough, cookie dough was to be had at $4 a tube. But it’s worth it! 😛

Gmail – the “g” stands for “goofy”

I’ve spent the last week using Gmail, and I’m switching back to trusty IMAP (i.e. a system that will work in any mail program). Gmail bugs me, and I don’t really see what the fuss is about anymore.

The user interface is nice and pretty, and I like how everything is all interactive, names auto-complete as I type them, messages expand and you can respond from the same page, etc. It is all very slick and well done. However, it is not as slick as a real program. And as someone who generally has my laptop with me or am checking email on my desktop, I’d rather use a faster, more responsive, slicker “real” program.

Gmail has issues with Safari. Sometimes when I try to login it just gets into an infinite loop, redirecting me to different pages and never actually getting me to my inbox. Sometimes I try to delete something or view a message and it just won’t work. Things don’t always behave as they should.

Gmail’s “labels” functionality doesn’t seem any different than normal folders. Unlike tags in Flickr and on other services, you can only give an email a single label, which makes them a lot less useful. If I could tag my emails with multiple keywords and such that I could define as I go, that’d be great. Having to go create labels and then applying one label per message gives me really no benefit compared to normal folders.

Gmail only lets you have 20 “filters” to control your mail, and it makes it difficult to do anything sophisticated, like filter based on email headers. I have a whole bunch of procmail rules that dump emails I don’t need. It is not easy to replicate this behavior in Gmail, and the 20 rule limit is silly and arbitrary. If you can give me 2GB of storage, you can give me more than 20 filters.

I’ve found that Gmail provides a nice, slick, powerful web-based email client that is probably great for normal people. For power emailers, however, I don’t see much benefit to it. I haven’t gotten enough email into it to check the search capabilities, but Spotlight in Apple Mail works pretty well for me and is pretty darn fast. I have no use for the Gmail conversation view and see it as more of a gimmick, I don’t like that it is hard to see sender’s full names (it defaults to only first times, what happens if I have two friends named Adam?) and I find it is just too much of a hassle compared to having my own email on my own computer to handle my own way. Gmail just doesn’t work right for me, it doesn’t feel right, it is annoying to have to go to a web page to read my email, it just doesn’t fit how I do things.

Bye bye, Gmail. I’m going back to what works.

Bad things, good things

On the ride home tonight I was listening to The Connection and the guest was Steven Johnson, talking about his new book Everything Bad Is Good for You: How Today’s Popular Culture Is Actually Making Us Smarter. I read an article somewhere last week adapted from the book, and while I won’t get into all the details the gist of it is that today’s new media landscape is far more rich, varied, and complex than at any time in our history, and, as a result, we are becoming a smarter society. Shows like The West Wing and ER are fast-paced, highly specialized, and carry dozens of plotlines simultaneously, yet people have no problem keeping up. Video games offer rich virtual worlds that require complex problem solving and observation and include entire interactive stories. IQ scores are up and crime is down over the past ten years, and Johnson says new media is an important factor in this change.

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Virtual tour of Nassau, and more

Conch shells at the fish marketI’ve uploaded a bunch of pictures from Nassau, New Providence, Bahamas for your enjoyment. Page through them for interesting facts and tidbits about my trip and the local history. It seemed more effective than trying to write up a few paragraphs, and made good use of the capabilities of Flickr. Note you won’t see the comments in the slideshow view, sadly.

* “Pictures from Nassau”:http://www.flickr.com/photos/dsilverman/sets/330484/
* “Pictures from Atlants”:http://www.flickr.com/photos/dsilverman/sets/329198/

The iPod phenomenon

I did not truly understand how the iPod has become a cultural phenomenon until tonight. After dinner nine of us had a half hour discussion about music which centered upon the iPod. Almost everyone at the table owned one, and the ones who didn’t either planned to purchase one or were seriously considering it. People talked about the music they had — mostly ripped from their own CDs — and how they wanted to share it with each other. People recalled specific songs and artists, tested each other on music trivia, and promised to open their libraries to each other. This truly is the future of music.

Of course the discussion then shifted to the best ways to get around Apple’s DRM in order to get the music to other people. Since no one had really bought anything from the iTunes Music Store all they really had to worry about was getting non-restricted music from one iPod to another, and there was near universal disdain for (and deep misunderstandings of) how the iPod synchronizes with a computer, and in specific how such synchronization is only one way, and with only one computer.

If I want a song from Anthony, I can’t hook my iPod up to his computer to get it — doing so will erase every song on my iPod and synchronize it with all of his music, and then when I take it back to my computer it will delete all of his music and give me back mine. There isn’t any easy way to pick and choose, to copy back and forth, in short, to share, to designate the music as ours. And it is a simple fact that one of the best things about experiencing music is being able to share that experience with others.

The feature everyone universally wanted was a way to synchronize specific songs, albums, and playlists directly from one iPod to another, “like how you can share things on Palm Pilots,” according to one of the conversation participants. This would be a killer feature, and it is one, I explained, that the recording industry would never allow.

This is, after all, the recording industry’s worst nightmare. Grown adults, discussing their love of music, and talking about sharing the music they have legally acquired. The sheer audacity of people to think they own something and can copy it for their friends! In the context of current copyright law and the current music distribution scheme, the record companies are correct. We don’t own the music, we shouldn’t be sharing it, people are not being “fairly” compensated when we do, at least not immediately, through the sale of a CD. And yet this is how people crave to experience their music. The community aspect, the sharing aspect, the sampling aspect are vital to creating strong musical connections.

And in most industries, in most circumstances, in most times, when the consumer wants something badly, the market adapts to give it to them, to serve their needs, and to make a profit in the process. But not this industry, not this circumstance, and not this time. Instead, technology is increasingly being needlessly locked down, restricted, encrypted, complicated — all in a misguided attempt to preserve existing business models.

But the world is changing, technology is changing, and people are changing. We’ve always shared music with our friends. Tape players let us make copies. CD burners let us make exact duplicates. Portable music players let us convert something we had that was not very portable into something incredibly portable, something easily sharable. And the internet allowed us to expand our communal scope to a vast degree.

The world has changed, and the only thing that hasn’t changed is the content industry itself. But when I see nine grown adults sitting around a table recalling old life memories through music, discussing their love for a piece of technology that really, really works for them, and then complaining about the stupid and needless restrictions put in place by the content industry to thwart their ability to do something that comes naturally, I am increasingly hopeful that we will win this fight. In the end, the will of the people will win out over the greed of the corporations.

But what we need is education. What we need is for the random guy on the street to realize that the reason why the iPod can’t do everything they want it to do is not because Apple is stupid or the feature just hasn’t been implemented yet, but because a higher power, the power that locks up our culture and wants to charge us every time we want to get our hands on it, has decreed that there is only one correct way to listen to our music, and it is there way. Once people understand who is the real culprit here, only then things will start to change for the better.

The best in traffic shaping

Waltham has a wonderful infrastructure for keeping school children safe from passing motorists. It consists of having crossing guards stationed at every single crosswalk within a quarter mile of the school, each festooned with a reflective yellow vest and white Mickey Mouse gloves. There are yellow blinking signs that say 20 miles per hour, there is a radar sign that flashes your current speed in yellow, and there are yellow school placards everywhere. But the best part of it is having a person on every single street corner, watching you. How can you possibly speed by at 40 when you see a person standing there with a look of absolute disgust that says “you slimy child hater, you should rot in hell.” Sure, there are still some people who speed through, and yeah, they probably do belong in hell, but almost everyone stays within a reasonable speed (25±5mph) within the school zone.

And in addition to the “Big Mother is watching you” aspect, there is also a pretty blatant YELLOW = SCHOOL = SLOW thing being drilled into your head.

Kottke beat me!

I’ve been spending a bunch of time lately implementing some neat stuff on this site. The idea is to remove all of the side navigation and allow users to access content dynamically by clicking the tabs on top (“About Me,” “Photos,” etc.). In order to do this, when you click the link I dynamically load information into a hidden field on the page and then transfer it into a container so that it appears the right way in the right place. While i’m playing with it you can click the little “flip!” links up on top to see the work, in progress and far from complete.

So of course today Jason Kottke has to go and update his site with dynamically loading content using a ridiculously simple JavaScript to do it. So basically, all this time I’ve spent trying to learn JavaScript and figure out how to make this work can pretty much be eliminated by dropping in his 20 lines of code. Gah!

Not to mention I don’t feel very unique anymore. Oh well.

Drooling

In 1996 Apple was wandering in a wasteland of mismanagement and Power Computing came along with some kick-ass Mac clones. I remember my PowerTower Pro 180, it is the first computer I can remember custom-configuring myself. Power Computer PowerTower ProI obsessed over it for weeks, possibly months, figuring out all the specs, reading up on all of the subsystems and busses and add-ons. I loved that computer. I haven’t had such excitement and passion for a computer since.

For the past few days I have just been giddy with excitement about my new Nikon D70 camera. I have been reading everything I can about it, how it works, lenses, filters, tripods, speed lights (flashes), everything. Nikon D70 Digital SLR CameraI specced it out, I compared models, I read the literature, I decided which one I wanted, and finally I made the purchase, and I couldn’t be happier. Every hour I reload the FedEx tracking page and bang on my desk because it is still in New Jersey. It would have been more efficient to have driven down to New York City to get it myself, and if I was more adventurous (and thought of it) I might just have done it. Come on camera, get here!

I really hope this good feeling continues, after all, I did just blow $1000 on a new camera. And with expensive cameras come expensive accessories. I’d better watch out, because if I get too into this I might have to buy a $200 flash or a $300 telephoto lens or a $20 trigger remote or a $100 tripod…

Let’s take it slow, shall we? Can anyone recommend any good places around here for photography classes?

Two quick TV notes

This season’s Scrubs have been highly variable and several episodes have characters behaving in ways very inconsistent with their personalities. I suspect there are some new writers in the mix, and I worry they don’t much know what they’re doing. For that reason, I’ve move things in my TiVo subscriptions list so instead it now records the other hospital show in the same timeslot, namely;

House is really engossing, and I realized tonight after watching the latest episode (which aired a couple Tuesdays ago) that what “works” about the show is the main character is an angry, bitter, stuck-up, and incredibly grating doctor, but he is the kind of doctor you’d want to have. Not just because he is always right. It’s because he behaves like a lawyer.

Go with me on this one.

For all his supposed disdain for his patients, one of the reasons it is so hard to convince House to see anyone is because once he accepts a case he moves into the role of patient advocate, and he is the best advocate you can have. He will break every rule, do everything within his power to make sure that his patient is served. He will risk his medical license and the licences of those around him, subvert authority, screw up drug trials, anything you want. He is the best lawyer you could have, and even better, he is a doctor too. House is always set in conflict with people who are “overly” concerned about profits, not being sued, or following ethical guidelines. Most of these people have very valid points, and may be right from a big-picture point of view. But House is right from the patient’s point of view, and that is what matters most to the patient.

And one day you will be that patient. So who would you rather have as a doctor?

(If I’m lucky, Kevin will step in with a Utilitarian view on this one… ;))

Time and routine

In just a bit I plan to get down to work on my Chinese Philosophy essay and do that full-time for the next few days. But once that is done, I’m finished with academics at Brandeis. I’m starting to finally have free time again.

In the past week or so I’ve had a lot of fun taking pictures, reading a book for pleasure, watching House, and listening to NPR. These are all things I try to do in general, but they are the kind of things that get pushed to the back when there are other things to do. I don’t think there is anything wrong with liking a few TV shows or radio programs or wanting to read a book, and I like that I have time and freedom to just do these things without worrying unduly about other commitments.

I’m having a lot of fun taking pictures, and I want to take more. I’m having a lot of fun playing with Flickr and 43 Things, and I want to start accomplishing some of the goals I have been setting using the latter. I have been cleaning up my computer files and my music a bit. I installed Apple’s new Tiger operating system upgrade and my computer seems…cleaner. It is a strange obsession of mine, with pristine newness, but I feel very satisfied making clear lists and albums and playlists and goals, keeping my mental map open wide. I also feel satisfied reading new, interesting things, getting new perspectives, sitting back and looking at the world and going, “hmm,” and enjoying it.

It is nice to not have anything I need to do, and to be able to just indulge in calm. I wonder how long I can keep this up before I get bored with it.

One thing is for certain, I have made my decision. I am buying a Nikon D70, and I am buying it now.

My 43 Things

I keep thinking of things I want to do, either in the immediate future, after graduation, or just at some indeterminate point, and I wanted to make a list. Luckily I stumbled upon 43 Things, a site where people make lists of the goals they want to accomplish and can talk about their progress and help others. It is a simple concept, well executed, and perfectly fit my needs. The thought is that 43 is a good number of things to have on your mind at once. Too many more and you’ll never accomplish anything, and if you aim too low you’re not being fair to yourself. So far I have sixteen things on my list, which you can view here. I’m sure it will change over time.

I’m putting the most immediate concerns at the top and the more etheral (or inconvenient) goals down near the bottom. Among my goals so far is to find a job, get an apartment, go white water rafting, and learn photography. As I think of things, I will add them. Next I need to start doing them.

Flickr

The other day I signed up for a Flickr account but I haven’t uploaded any photos yet. I know its supposed to be amazing and innovative in how it displays photos in a “stream” with “tags” rather than through galleries, and it has some nice Flash-based slideshow stuff, but I don’t really get the point of it. Why are bloggers who know enough to be able to set up their own galleries flocking to lock up their photos on Flickr’s servers?

Is it just that the community nature of it (commenting, bookmarks, etc.) is what makes it so amazing? Someone please explain the point of it to me, cause I don’t get it, just like I don’t get all of the Friendster-type sites. Is Flickr a fad or is there really something to it?

Photos

Wow, I’ve been posting quite a lot of remainders recently. Well, let’s break it up a bit by throwing in some photo galleries that I finally got around to putting online. I think my finals and post-college/pre-job time is probably going to be spent going on a few adventures and spending a lot of time doing some digital housekeeping. All of these files and things really need to be cleaned up and organized and backed up.

  • Apple Picking (Sept 30, 2004) – Kelli, Aaron, Beth and I went out on a pretty day near the end of fall to pick some apples. I thought I had put these pictures up a while back, but apparently not.
  • Michigan (Nov 5-7, 2004) – Adam Herman owed me some money so he decided to repay me by buying me a plane ticket to come visit. 🙂 I got to see his cat, Yanna, her cat, UMich, and some local scenery. It was a lot of fun, but Adam’s car was scary. Like, strange colored smoke coming out of the vents, a windshield that wouldn’t un-fog and had a massive crack through it, etc. You have fixed that stuff by now, RIGHT???
  • Hawaii (Dec 24 – 30) – This is going to be the year of fun vacations. Apparently at some point my parents realized we should really be getting out more. We went to Hawaii over winter break and I get to go to the Bahamas over finals! I wrote down my thoughts on the trip back in December, and they still hold.

Of the Hawaii batch, I’m especially fond of this picture and this one. More stuff to come, and I’ll be sure to take lots and lots of pictures at Atlantis.

Edit: Yeah, Michigan and apple picking were definitly there before, and something happened to them. I’ve upgraded to a newer version of Gallery and re-imported all the albums, and things seem to be happy again. Gonna keep an eye on things for a while and make sure all of my backups are functioning correctly as well…